Sex Therapy Archives - Heidi Gee Counselling

The Hook Up- dirty talk + when to text after a date

desiree — Wed, 05 Jul 2023 07:20:15 +0000

Dirty talk can be a super hot way to spark fantasies, communicate your desire and ask for what you want – but it can be awkward if you don’t know where to start, or what to say. So we get a lesson in dirty talk 101.

What’s your rule when it comes to texting back after a date? Some people reckon you need to wait 24 hours, while others say texting minutes after is fine – we hear your hot takes on the right amount of time!

Read the full article or listen to Heidi’s interview on Triple J’s The Hook Up.

https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/the-hook-up/the-hook-up-dirty-talk-when-to-text-after-date-dumped/102317182

The post The Hook Up- dirty talk + when to text after a date appeared first on Heidi Gee Counselling.

A Beginner’s Guide to Car Sex ( Triple J)

admin — Tue, 25 Jan 2022 07:28:17 +0000

Get in loser, we’re having car sex.

It’s road trip season – and that means when you get the itch, you might not be home in time to scratch it…

Or maybe you live at home with the ‘rents and the only place you can create networking opportunities is in the back of your 1998 Corolla.

Or having car sex might just be your thing.

Read the full article or listen to Heidi’s interview on Triple J’s The Hook Up.

https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/the-hook-up/how-to-have-car-sex-and-your-stories-of-getting-caught/13679950

The post A Beginner’s Guide to Car Sex ( Triple J) appeared first on Heidi Gee Counselling.

Are Blue Balls Real? Heidi discusses blue balls on Triple J Radio. Plus how to deal if someone’s trying to guilt you into sex.

admin — Sun, 08 Nov 2020 09:01:10 +0000

Ok are blue balls legit? Or just an excuse to cum?

And what about ‘blue vulvas’? Are they a thing too?

Heidi discusses blue balls on Triple J Radio. Plus how to deal if someone’s trying to guilt you into sex.

To listen to the podcast click on the link https://www.abc.net.au/radio/programs/the-hook-up-podcast/are-blue-balls-real/12840958

The post Are Blue Balls Real? Heidi discusses blue balls on Triple J Radio. Plus how to deal if someone’s trying to guilt you into sex. appeared first on Heidi Gee Counselling.

Have Better Sex With Strangers, A Sexologist Reveals

admin — Wed, 16 Oct 2019 01:05:12 +0000

Last week, scientists found the longevity of a relationship can be determined by sexual chemistry the first time a couple have sex. In light of this, we decided to interview Heidi Gee, a leading sexologist, to ask how guys can impress their new partners.

With regard to the study, she says sex is just one aspect that influences how long a couple will stay together. However, she does admit, “The chemicals we experience during intimacy create lust, and as humans we want more of what makes us feel good.”

Read the full article on dmarge.com.

The post Have Better Sex With Strangers, A Sexologist Reveals appeared first on Heidi Gee Counselling.

A Couple’s Counsellor Reveals How To Improve Your Love Life In A Long Term Relationship

admin — Wed, 16 Oct 2019 01:03:37 +0000

It might come after five months, it might come after five years, but at some point in your long term relationship you will inevitably stop and think, “Are we on autopilot here”?.

As couple’s counsellor and sex therapist Heidi Gee recently told us, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with this. In fact, if you like it, and it works for you, a routine isn’t such a bad idea (you don’t want to start watching that next episode of Netflix too late, after all).

However, if you want to spice up your sex life — whether permanently or just for a weekend away — there are a number of things you can do.

Read the full article on dmarge.com.

The post A Couple’s Counsellor Reveals How To Improve Your Love Life In A Long Term Relationship appeared first on Heidi Gee Counselling.

7 Hacks To Make Oral Sex Better, Because It’s Really Not Just About Your Mouth

admin — Tue, 15 Oct 2019 22:40:08 +0000

Oral sex can be pretty divisive. Some of us love giving, but feel awkward when receiving. Some love receiving, but are hesitant at giving.

Learning how to make oral sex better has a lot to do with reciprocity — but also exploring and knowing how to have fun.”We all know our bodies best, our sensitive spots, the parts we want touched and kissed and the parts that don’t need stimulation. No two penises are the same, no two vulvas are the same so what might have felt good for a previous partner may not feel comfortable for the person you’re about to go down on,” says Heidi Giewald, also know as Memphis Gee, an Australian sexual health and advice expert.

Read the full article on bustle.com.

The post 7 Hacks To Make Oral Sex Better, Because It’s Really Not Just About Your Mouth appeared first on Heidi Gee Counselling.