Oral sex can be pretty divisive. Some of us love giving, but feel awkward when receiving. Some love receiving, but are hesitant at giving.
Learning how to make oral sex better has a lot to do with reciprocity — but also exploring and knowing how to have fun.”We all know our bodies best, our sensitive spots, the parts we want touched and kissed and the parts that don’t need stimulation. No two penises are the same, no two vulvas are the same so what might have felt good for a previous partner may not feel comfortable for the person you’re about to go down on,” says Heidi Giewald, also know as Memphis Gee, an Australian sexual health and advice expert.